Messaging Someone? Use These 40 Conversation Topics

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Messaging someone for the first time can be nerve-wracking. Whether it’s one of your followers, a crush or a new friend, you can get stuck as to what to say after the exchanges of hellos.

But before you start fretting, we have here 40 conversation topics to help you out.

40 Conversation Topics for Messaging Apps

We’ve categorized the conversation starters into three: Casual, Thought-Provoking, and Funny. Ensure to have meaningful conversations on messaging apps with these ideas.

Casual Conversation Starters

  1. What is your favorite weekend activity?
  2. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
  3. What are you most passionate about?
  4. What’s one movie you could watch over and over?
  5. How do you spend your mornings?
  6. What three words best describe you?
  7. If you opened a business, what kind of business would it be?
  8. Who in your life brings you the most joy?
  9. If someone offered to tell you your future, would you accept it?
  10. What’s something not many people know about you?
  11. If you could have tea with a fictional character, who would that be?
  12. What do you bring with you everywhere you go?
  13. What talent do you wish you had?
  14. What do you do to improve your mood when you are in a bad mood?
  15. Where do you see yourself living when you retire?

Thought-Provoking Conversation Topics

  1. What is being successful in life mean to you?
  2. Do you believe you have a soul? If so, wherein your body does it live?
  3. What was the experience that impacted you the most in your life?
  4. When do you think a person is ready for marriage?
  5. Would you be with someone who doesn’t have the same beliefs as you?
  6. Are you religious or spiritual?
  7. If you could change anything about your past, what would it be?
  8. What’s the biggest risk that you have taken in life?
  9. Do you usually go with your gut instincts or your brain?
  10. Do you believe in other dimensions or parallel universes?
  11. What do you think about when you’re by yourself?
  12. Do you think we create our own destiny or are we governed by fate?
  13. What are you passionate about in life?
  14. Should you change yourself for someone you love?
  15. If there is an afterlife or reincarnation, what one memory from this life would you bring with you?

Funny Conversation Topics

  1. What is the best part about taking a selfie?
  2. How early do you like to get to the airport?
  3. What would you do during the purge?
  4. Would you like to have an extra arm or an extra leg?
  5. What is the funniest prank played by you?
  6. If you become a ghost, what would be the first thing that you would do?
  7. What’s the stupidest Wi-Fi name you have seen?
  8. Would you rather have a pet unicorn or be a unicorn?
  9. What is the weirdest food combination you’ve ever tried?
  10. If you were in a circus, which character would you be?

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